Thread:MayhemKing/@comment-16072884-20131024024037/@comment-24199555-20131217205731

TheSMASHFan wrote: "It's about the way he handles the people who are a part of thus community." "The issue is about his character." It appears to me that you're getting mad at my character because I'm disagreeing with you and I'm "refusing" to let you add the stuff in, but you haven't been able to show why your reasoning is correct. I'll say it again, what you guys have been accusing me of having "bad character" for, such as arguing against your viewpoints and enforcing rules that will help keep order, is not being rude in any way, and is a natural part of this wiki.

"SMASH frustrates more than just a few people and nothing is going to be done about it." The people who have been frustrated me have failed to give any legitimate reasons why I frustrate them, other than "I'm mad because I lost".

"Look back on all of his response to our complaints. Did he ever once say "Hey man, I'm sorry I made you feel like you wasted your time." Because he's not that guy. He's not the guy who acknowledges that he could possibly even be wrong unless solid proof is presented to him. And people like that in any form of power spells disaster and frustration. So it's not even worth it." Saying that you're sorry for wasting someone's time by arguing with them is completely optional and not required, and you can't expect everyone to be polite and courteous to you wherever you go. If someone isn't acknowledging someone else's hard work, it's not something that counts as a problematic attitude, nor does someone not saying "Please" and "Thank you" and "I'm sorry" count as being rude. When people speak to each other, it's generally implied that they're respecting each other, and the overpoliteness is unnecessary. You should never get mad at someone just because they don't say "I'm sorry" to you.

You guys, however, have made me aware of my aggressive position when I debate things, and I will try not to let the aggressive tone work into me in the future.

All of this is exactly the problem.